I've been pondering over creating this thread for the past couple of days since the situation at hand arose. I think you guys might be the only people I can talk to about this right now, since the anonymity of online message boards often means honest responses and shared experiences. My friends in real life on the other hand...
"Bambi, what are you doing? When you get hurt, don't say we didn't warn you!"
I'll admit I like to play with fire. I'm also a very typical Gemini which makes me a massive hypocrite. I hate game playing, but give me full control over it and I can be tempted. On a daily basis, I tend to be really a very modest person - If the right kind of situation massages my ego, it's a totally different story.
So you can imagine how smug it made me the other day to have a guy basically begging for me to give him a second chance. I also know he's got something of an ego on him too, which made it even more satisfying for me.
It was a short fling that ended months ago when he told me he'd been to visit and also slept with his ex. It felt pretty shit, because we really got on well and were both hugely attracted to each other in a very physical sense. Hurt by this, I hit back by simply telling him he was "boring" and subsequently blocked him on whatsapp. In a childish and angry response, he immediately blocked me back. Apparently, that's the worst thing I could've said, because it's stuck with him ever since.
I noticed the other day that he'd unblocked me on whatsapp, which made me curious to unblock him back to see if he had anything to say for himself. He did. He honestly couldn't have apologised or complimented me more, it was like grovelling over text. He was also still pretty upset that I called him boring - It seems I knew exactly what to say to dismantle his ego back when he was being a shit. Now he's hoping I'll give him a second chance by going out for a drink next week.
I feel like the cat that got the cream. It's fun and exciting to me to hold this much power. And I know I shouldn't, but I'm definitely curious to go out for that drink now. What do you think, should I fuck with this fuck boy a bit for my own satisfaction, amusement and ego?
Have you ever been in a similar situation? Share your stories here.
"Bambi, what are you doing? When you get hurt, don't say we didn't warn you!"
I'll admit I like to play with fire. I'm also a very typical Gemini which makes me a massive hypocrite. I hate game playing, but give me full control over it and I can be tempted. On a daily basis, I tend to be really a very modest person - If the right kind of situation massages my ego, it's a totally different story.
So you can imagine how smug it made me the other day to have a guy basically begging for me to give him a second chance. I also know he's got something of an ego on him too, which made it even more satisfying for me.
It was a short fling that ended months ago when he told me he'd been to visit and also slept with his ex. It felt pretty shit, because we really got on well and were both hugely attracted to each other in a very physical sense. Hurt by this, I hit back by simply telling him he was "boring" and subsequently blocked him on whatsapp. In a childish and angry response, he immediately blocked me back. Apparently, that's the worst thing I could've said, because it's stuck with him ever since.
I noticed the other day that he'd unblocked me on whatsapp, which made me curious to unblock him back to see if he had anything to say for himself. He did. He honestly couldn't have apologised or complimented me more, it was like grovelling over text. He was also still pretty upset that I called him boring - It seems I knew exactly what to say to dismantle his ego back when he was being a shit. Now he's hoping I'll give him a second chance by going out for a drink next week.
I feel like the cat that got the cream. It's fun and exciting to me to hold this much power. And I know I shouldn't, but I'm definitely curious to go out for that drink now. What do you think, should I fuck with this fuck boy a bit for my own satisfaction, amusement and ego?
Have you ever been in a similar situation? Share your stories here.
