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13.01.2016 16:01:23
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My local bubble tea stand had decided to up and vanish without warning - I was very upset - so upset I bought myself an entire tub of popping pearls! Very mature adult thing to do. These are strawberry and they're really good!

What has been the most "mature adult" thing you've done recently?


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13.01.2016 17:51:14
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I'm not sure if Remi is joking , because it would be something I might do to if I was a fan of cherries that taste of strawberries.  I'd buy a treat if my foot hurt. A Popsicle is wonderful after some uncomfortable shoes   I always take questions very seriously, when made in a general forum.  So I thought of a situation at work, that is happening right now, where I have to be the mature adult person ,right here.  I swore that when I retired, but wanted to work part-time, that I would totally stay out of the office drama.  I reached my goal once,  Why bother with the glass ceiling for no reason but stress.
  Without going into to many details.  There is 3 shifts.  Each has a set amount of labor hours to use.  My shift is the first.  I handle the most traffic, but someone else is required to do my paperwork for me.  The next shift is supposed to do my paperwork, as their traffic is extremely light, often just being my left-over stragglers, and nuisance arrivals.  The 3rd shift is supposed to handle the evening traffic, that can get very busy, and have everything ready for me to walk in and instantly take the microphone.(first shift).  The company is smart using me in this manner.  The second and third shifts however have made a very big mistake with their paperwork.  After the first full 6 months the first reviews of my performance came in and the so called 'managers in training', had:
 
1) Taken an average of four labor hours per day from my shift.  This was discovered very easily.  The second and third shift, just stopped doing the required paperwork.
2) This is where I had to be an adult.  I wanted to EAT my way up the CHAIN of COMMAND, link by link till I had someone by the poppers.  I found out that they were taking the hours I saved the company, and were giving it to members of their respective shifts, even though there was no workload to justify those hours. It was discovered that they were receiving too many in the first place.

3)  When caught with paperwork, they actually blamed me, for not telling them to do the paperwork.  [ Uhhhh,  DUHhhhh  It's the first thing on the duty list for them. They have nothing to do except that because I still have the Microphone. Best of all, I am just the newest Hired Talent.  It's not my job how to tell the management how to run the shifts. I have one job. Make Money!]

4) Third shift, had to take advantage too.  They saw that second shift never had anything to do, and so they also decided to start padding the hours to the 3rd shift.  They got away with it a bit better.  They had always an excuse. Second shift
Second shift had an Excuse, First Shift.

        Me.   The only one actually moving the money from point A to point B with proof in the paperwork, that was eventually done.
They used more hours and they said,' trying to keep up with me.'  This is two titled (managers?) and young collage educated women, and I'm the retarded senor citizen charity case to be taken advantage of and thrown as quickly as possible under the nearest speeding bus.  Fraud never really works very well because eventually everyone blames the next person. Eventually it filters all the way down to dollars and common sense.
  
My mature response has been.... Saving a mans career, from some very un-qualified women.  I like my supervisor.  He is a good and decent man,  but he is totally letting these women walk all over him, and me the part timer in the process. I am a Feminist, so, I have decided to have them fired for the cause of justice.  Fraud is actually a crime, and they will hope to GOD that the company doesn't press charges against them for the crime after I'm done with them...  They might learn how to manage some time better working at McDonald's, to pay off that American Student loan.  They can call that my gift to their education, along with the defaulted government loan, I paid for them to be taught to be that corrupt.   They should have tried listening to me, and learning to just do the job.  Hate the ugly old bitch,  but  she might have something worth learning if they listened with an open mind and not just an open bank card with a balance to be paid...

PS: A male is the regular first shift person in charge.  He never has hours left over, and actually gave the 2nd and 3rd shift the idea, when I was working and they discovered that they had little to do, in the form of actually revenue making traffic and only had to do paperwork.  Think about it,  Bimbo's are crafty  if nothing else.  Theft from a co-worker doesn't count when climbing the corporate ladder even if caught you will NOT go to Jail. The reward was great, if it was possible that it wouldn't be noticed, eventually.  Quietly, they were shown the door as not to upset anyone who noticed the complete Bull-shit from beginning to end.  We would't want people to know that women can be deceitful, when practicing equal rights?  What would people do if they they wanted money so badly, and they didn't want to wait to learn how earn it?  Steal it from an old woman.   It works sometimes because for those 6 months I thought I really sucked at my new job.

  



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13.01.2016 18:33:11
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My super mature adult thing is that I will occasionally have Lucky Charms for breakfast. My mum bought me some the other week to cheer me up, since I was on my period, suffering from burnout, and just generally feeling pretty miserable. But then my brother's girlfriend ate them all while I was sleeping AND used up all of the hot water in our house just before I was about to wash and tone my hair.

Needless to say I called my mum, whilst my brother's girlfriend was in earshot and was like "There's no hot water left because someone decided to have a ridiculously big bubble bath in the middle of the day. Also, my cereal seems to have eaten itself". I got shouted at by my brother for apparently being a bitch. It sounds childish, but I seriously can't deal with his girlfriend showing up at our house whenever she wants to use the washing machine, have meals cooked/bought for her and just generally eat all of the food in the cupboards. She and my brother live 20 minutes away, but stayed over for 10 days during Christmas. She never even thanked my mum, bought her flowers, or offered to help with a single thing.

13.01.2016 18:33:11
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13.01.2016 18:54:32
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Bambi's post made me remember how I once did that too, as a guest.  OMG, I was House Guest From Hell.   I was invited to a Member of Parliament's estate.   Haha,  They are actually quite normal people.  Mum, allowed me access to her chamber-rooms. Being a ridiculously spoiled American,  I also underestimated the hot water that was available for the entire house.  Oh it was a shame,  I became the gossip of the house-hold staff for the rest of the month, over a hot bath.   Ok,  not just that,    but why give spoilers to how so many simple cultural difference can be such an embarrassing moments.   I made sure to be even more outrageous the next day, for an entertainment value the staff could appreciate with a great laugh.  I had a funeral for the Gravy Bowl, of 'Never ending Gravy'.  I took that coveted bowl of rot, right out of the kitchen, and dug a grave.  Said a prayer, with everyone stunned, and buried it by hand, with curses of cats, and hairballs.  But, I was more careful with the water.  Yes,  I heard the daughter mention that issue quite loudly, too.    I made it up to her in a Pub later.  That poor girl didn't know what to do next with her new sexy soldiers and unwashed hair. (?)  She did just fine, dancing with my caste-offs.  She was not feeling unwashed by the end of the night.  She was the princess and I was the whore who had paid the debt because it was all my fault.  As I was not a local person, the Pubs were her choices.   She got to see an actress at work in an uncomfortable environment only for HER.  She hated me, after one hot bath.  For the rest of the time, we giggled in her bed after a fun night out on the town.   She even began to giggle with her mother, at what I might wear to morning tea.   They said make myself at home, and I did so with some rather questionable cultural differences. Would you go to tea in a sports bra and g-string panties in a proper English household?   Everyone was crying as they placed me on an airplane, and to this day, so do I.  That home was Heavenly to be a part of my life, and mistakes.

13.01.2016 18:54:32
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13.01.2016 20:02:29
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I wish my brother's girlfriend would make it up to me by taking me to a pub!

There's definitely a certain level of etiquette required for being a house guest. She either doesn't have a clue, or was raised to be rude.

13.01.2016 20:02:29
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13.01.2016 21:54:27
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'Raised to be Rude'.    This is actually a very real education.  My current living situation is just 3 days old, so I just wish to talk about my new sons, as only a neighbor.  It is a very minor thing for a young boy to do,  but I go insane if people leave doors open.  Inside doors are not a problem.  Because Jackies boys have been raised around criminals in jail, the fathers taught them to never lock a door.  It will be -20 f' outside, and the boys come into my home, and I need my staff to shut a door for them.  It is pathetic I have hired babysitters for such things for my own peace of mind.   They cannot even make a simple sandwich for themselves.  Every thought, and action must be inspired before they can even play like boys.   Till then they cry, because everything is so unfair. My home has rules they have never been exposed too. Civilization?  I'm still just amazed that they are actually used to having 22 cats peeing on them at night because it was the aunts house. They really see that as normal to the point of complaining that I didn't have any cats.  But I did have a playroom full of toys any boy would love to play with, but that isn't good enough to compare to cat pee in a little boys hair after sleeping in a lice infested chair, as a bed at aunties shack..
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      The little baby who is their sister doesn't see it that way.  She is warm,SAFE, and comfortable and loved with what she has.   
The boys don't see that an open door is the opportunity to do what is right.   They just want to rush inside from out of the cold, never thinking that it will get cold there to if they don't care for their own environment too. The rush to the door to survive, but nobody should be held accountable to make sure it is shut once again so everyone can survive.  A mothers work is never done, when fathers are a dime a dozen, and worth even less when they teach how to respect the environment they have by pissing on it, raping it, or destroying it because they couldn't have it. The children they made to be exactly like them because they never matured while in Jail long enough, to be a father long enough, to not be returned to jail because someone just couldn't shut a door to a Pub.   Are Doors that are so wide open to fights, so attractive to a man, to go to jail for, and lose his family?  I find it funny, Jackie's baby daddy just went to jail because he is a drunk.  Lost his girlfriend and baby to another woman.     Ouch.   Being a man must be tough when faced with a door.  Mine is written in 9mm letters. 'Get out, and don't let the door slap your ass on the way out.'  I'm going to fix those sons of your's, 'my boys' while the fathers can rot in jail.  Hopefully long enough to get them used to a private school, with moral values...    Just sayin'  I want to do my best to fix some past problems for a few good boy's given a very bad start in life. They still have a chance to be successful in life, and I want to give them that opportunity. The boys are still young enough to not be permanently damaged by the fathers, otherwise I wouldn't even bother, with the effort and money.  Jackie  is my reward but her children, are the gift to the future from both of us.

 She gets child support payments, but not enough to ever fix the broken relationships and self induced poverty Jackie's side of the family practices.  Her aunt is so upset with me.   Jackie is no longer her meal ticket. Taxi. Maid. Nurse.
     Jackie can finally be a loved and not used woman.  Even she is having some problems with that concept when her aunt begs her to take her to the store for gummy bears bought with government welfare food money.  Jackie will spend more driving her car to buy a bag of candy for her aunt, than she will pay to fix her car or buy a book or toy for her kids.  I'm still being an ass about this subject.   She gets no money till she is able to say NO, to her aunt.  I pay enough already for her aunt to survive, and feed 22 cats.  The woman has absolutely no bills or income, but still has cash.  She can buy her own damn gummy bears.  She lives in the city and could walk to a store, as she is not handicapped in any way.
  Oh and get this,  she doesn't approve of me, because I am causing her starvation.  Paid rent and food and cash, is not enough for her to allow Jackie to be free from her.  Jackie is torn up about it, because she knows her aunt is trying to use her to use me.  The aunt is texting constantly. " I need a ride to the store for gum."   Seriously,  a trip to the store for GUM, costs one hour, and 10x's the cost of a pack of gum.  Jackie is paying for that, with her child-support payments, because I wont. Every day so far, Jackie is spending $10.00 of food from her kids allowance to feed her aunt, candy that she could obtain for free all by herself.
  That is one serious guilt trip, and emotional blackmail, she is dealing with.  She just can't seem to say that she doesn't want to live like that anymore.
     If she is not careful,  I may also not like to live like that for much longer.  Jackie needs to grow a spine, and start to say, "No" to her family.  The government has them supplied with plenty of cash, and they really don't need her child support payments to feed four adult relatives who also collect welfare individually.  All together the payments to all are more that 3x's Jackies child-support payments are, but they need her to buy them gum, and be a taxi service.  American adults should be so ashamed, because maturity has become a skill only the rich can afford to have.  They know that one day she will say NO, and that worries them that she discovered her freedom and doesn't need to worry so much about adult players of the system of poverty any longer.  They live exactly like they want to live. She shouldn't feel guilt about it.
 I'm pissed off, because where were they, when she was growing up in a foster home?  They couldn't give a damn about her until she had money to steal from her children. I can't even dare say that to her though, even thought it is the total truth.  It's the only family she has.  I have none, so I'm walking a difficult path too.  I can't plant a seed of anger, when I really have no idea of what an extended family's value is to her. My personal rule is: First, do no harm.

  I want her Happy and loved and part of that might require us to become an independent mature adults, eventually. I am currently making her, as rude as that sounds, into a mature woman.  They say a woman can't change a man.  But a woman can change another woman, just by being a good example.
     Why else are we such fans of glamour and gossip and tips for a sexy sex-life from a magazine?

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