Heart or Mind?

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Freethinkerland
16.08.2018 14:59:17
Emizo

Which has more control?
Do you even have a choice on which gets to be more in-control?
The heart and mind can be very contradictory I think, if you've been able to make them co-exist somehow, I take my hat off to you. 

personally the 'Follow your heart' phrase they say is a load of rubbish.
I think you should follow your path; your heart can take you completely off route.
You're better off with your brain for directions. 
It's ashame then, that the heart is more powerful, and can mislead the mind all over the place.

It doesn't happen for everyone however... you can follow your heart and all goes well, I suppose. 
Can you use your brain to tell your heart what to do? My hearts way to stubborn and ignorant to listen to what's best for me.

16.08.2018 14:59:17
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Freethinkerland
17.08.2018 00:40:22
HeavenLeighBimbo

I read the opening post and thought about my 'action's' last night.   Being sober help's do this however I do believe, my adventure in life was driven from the 'heart' last night.   A "Friend" wanted to show off someone he met and 'very rare in his 'social circle'. To all of his friend's and it snow-balled into ?    Judge it as I wrote it->>>   heart or mind?

   I just don't understand why I let people talk me into, going to Dance-club's with them.
  {{{ This should be considered an illegal SPORT.  }}}
   Especially when my escort's for the evening, looked like an Iraqi terrorist,  and a Flaming Homosexual from Berkeley CA/ USA.  Men do some very wild thing's around me !!!     It took two men to even barely entertain me, much less the sudden urge to : protect me at all cost's.   I played with them, like they were toy's.
   Drunk Bimbo's do silly thing's when on holiday, and I was no exception.   [and] The whole event started because I was washing my car, and a gay guy,started to loudly profess his adoration for my Bikini.     The Iraqi, across the street joined in on sexually taunting me.    Then I did the unexpected.....      I went into full ON+ 'Stripper, with bubble's,car and water on them"
 I washed my car with my ass for them. and hand dried the car, like a ballerina....   SERIOUSLY !!!!   I love my car.

   It didn't take long for both of them to want to see me up close, and after some pleasantries. The 'gay guy' invited me to the club,  and the Iraqi guy wanted to go too.   Not the best sort of invitation to go to a 'DIVE' bar, but I was armed, and I said
  " Let's go." knowing the 'Gay guy', because he is obsessed with my style of 'mini's' and is very openly VERY GAY, man  who has talked about my ass for about 2 months now.   An acceptable 'safe date', usually  for me. OMG :/   seriously !!!    
   His flaw is,  He is so Popular !!!!,   every man he know's want's to meet me......    OMG, chapter and verse :
 This guy is totally FUN to hang around. I usually Hate even smelling a man.   But I don't mind him,   he is a worse Whore than I am around men.    If people think we are a 'married hetro- couple,  it could be the plot of a porn movie, on NetfliX 
 My real life :/ such as it is :   would be the filler of plot's and Twist's.

    I wasn't about to drive, so I went on an adventure through allies and tunnel's with two weird men on each side of me.
   OMG.   I was taken into an area's  that women in miniskirt's dare not be, without an escort at 1 AM !!!!
   They treated me so nicely though,   just so they could see me in the club, and with the black-light's and DJ.  
   I did a free show for them,  that was totally improvisational , and the DJ paid me the best compliment EVER.
 " Any-time,anywhere,any song !"   He whispered in my ear. 

  As I was not interested in Attracting anyone,   I stuck to just dancing with anyone who wanted to get in 'MY-SPACE'.
        As it turned out   only women dared get that close to me,  as the men all sat around the bar,  drooling- and stunned, a real princess would walk into a loser cowboy bar like that.....
   and in 5 minute's turn it into her private Strip-club.
          I nearly forgot how fun it is to manipulate men, with my body and attitude.
                   I had a Bimbo moment.....   no doubt about it.....

  I hate short stories,   I could write a chapter in a book about what I did to the 'male's last night.    I became an exhibitionist in a public pub  and nobody called the police.   I must have had something everyone wanted to SEE !!!   haha
   I didn't expect to be the cultural ambassador to a 'cowboy bar',   but it was amusing to me all the same.
      I'll never do that again !!!!!
  It was like, being an actress for 4 hour's straight.  No Breaks, and people trying to touch my hair.
Wahhh   I feel like such a snowflake now........      
          Retirement is so nice  :|)   I thought I was Grown-up by NOW !!!!  
 When do men start to leave you ALONE to wash a car???
Teasing me is a Challenge,  not a #metoo,  mental meltdown.

17.08.2018 00:40:22
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Antitheocra
17.08.2018 09:19:03
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Honestly when taking big decisions I don't follow my brain or my heart. I follow my intuition and it has never ever let me down.

17.08.2018 09:19:03
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Atheista
18.08.2018 04:41:09
martusia17

Mind, definitely :-)

18.08.2018 04:41:09
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20.08.2018 02:57:30
Carmel

As for me I am not an impulsive person anymore. I am actually a little cold hearted. I do not follow my mind because a lot of times my over-thinking has gotten me into trouble. I do not follow my heart because being sentimental and trying to make a big decision can cause me to do things out of loyalty instead of what is best for me. I follow my intuition if I have a sick feeling I know I should not do it

20.08.2018 02:57:30
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Reasonopia
20.08.2018 08:09:18
AnastazjaNadia

There's no one way. It depends on the situation.



20.08.2018 08:09:18
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Agnostica
23.08.2018 20:58:42
Mixxgolden

The brain sends informations to the mind and now the mind examines,analyzes but it's the heart that decides if you're honest with yourself and ... anyway lie to ourselves, it's playing a conscious or unconscious role !!

23.08.2018 20:58:42
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Freethinkerland
24.08.2018 20:35:57
HeavenLeighBimbo

My heart was hoping for more real example's and stories.
   My mind love's it.  ";/

24.08.2018 20:35:57
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Freethinkerland
24.12.2019 04:44:25
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This is actually kind of a psychological thing. Some people tend to be more emotional rather than logical, and therefore they go with their heart more usually. Others tend to think more logically and go with what they feel is most logical. I believe that the right balance of heart and mind varies between people, and that it's personal preference to choose either thinking emotionally with your heart or logically with your mind. You should have a balance of heart and mind thats good for you. Its important to have a balance that you're comfortable with because I guess it can make some people feel not right with the decisions that they're making if they feel their decisions are ignoring their feelings or illogical. If you feel that choosing your mind over your heart is the best choice to you, then that's what's good for you my girl. I know my friend tends to be quite opposite of you, as her heart drives a lot of her decision making. It's not really a bad thing that she thinks more with her heart, its just what she feels most comfortable with. People have personal preferences and I think that they should balance heart and mind to their needs, because some are just more logical and some are more emotional.

24.12.2019 04:44:25
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